Definitely smile while holding eye contact, you just can’t help yourself, he is so delicious!
Men are sensitive to signs of rejection, crossing arms might speak loudly to them, even if you’re only cold. Ooh, be cold, then he can come save you.
I have never fluttered my eyelashes at a man except in jest. I must not be southern enough?
yes, notice something special, a safe way to go, but if he’s an old friend he can probably handle teasing and a light fake punch.
color says so much about a woman. I have already written about this!
There are so many obnoxious perfumes on the market for women! I did the whole vanilla thing but never cinnamon. Today I wear a grapefruity smelling perfume. Bombshell by Victoria Secret.
“Be a good listener, but play hard to get.” I like that she said both, if you are overly submissive and eager, he might think there’s no challenge. If you are too aloof and cold, he will be insulted.
Be yourself….have fun (I edited out the middle part) I’m noticing there are different styles of girl game. A southern girl would have a very different approach than Parisian chic girl, California girl, or New York girl. Southern girls are loud and proud, forget understatement, but treat them right.
from The Grits (Girls Raised In The South) Guide to Life by Deborah Ford with Edie Hand