This Ask GBG comes from reader JC who writes:
I love this blog! I had a rough high school-college transition and lost my virginity. I regret it. It was definitely the stigmatized “ew you’re still a virgin?” atmosphere of a Freshman dorm that made me lose myself. Now I’m 23, and I really want to wait until marriage for sex. Am I being hypocritical? How do I tell a man that I’d like to wait until marriage but I’m not a virgin?